About


This page is dedicated to Bentley Williams, a contestant on this season’s The Bachelorette. We can’t help it, we’re Bentley fans. The guy’s got swagger, the guy’s got looks. Plus, we dig his brutal honesty. We don’t think it’s right that a contestant as awesome as Bentley is getting villainized. So we, the Bentley Williams Apologists have set up this platform to celebrate the man and defend his words and actions, however they may come across. We invite you to join us.

1) Bentley’s comments were frequently completely fabricated by producers

2) Not one contestant that was with Bentley has thrown him under the bus.

3) Producers contend that “Bentley is the worst ever” yet every prior season suggests evidence to the contrary.

 

As reported in prestigious outlets including Time, The Salt Lake Tribune, and Film.com

Advertisements
  1. BW2
    May 30, 2011 at 1:44 am

    Honesty is good. It lets people know where you stand.

    • T
      May 30, 2011 at 10:34 pm

      yeah honesty and straightforwardness are great, but bentley is not being honest with ashley! he’s leading her on, and going behind her back to the camera saying how he has no true interest in her. i can’t believe this website!!

      • funny!
        May 30, 2011 at 11:04 pm

        maybe the producers wanted this sort of think all along… hmmm…help the ratings???

      • June 1, 2011 at 2:54 pm

        Leading her on? He has had 20 minutes with her, during which time she begged him to stick around.

  2. MG
    May 31, 2011 at 4:54 pm

    “#### Removed for profanity OR hate speech #####”

    • NotReality
      May 31, 2011 at 7:17 pm

      Emily chose not to do the show, because she did not like how they edited her last season. This show is known for this trash. I’ll agree that Bentley is as arrogant as most people with amazing hair, but you should realize nobody is this mean in “real” life. The “jerk” you see doesn’t exist and is all staged and edited.

      Also, catch up on some reading–Matt 7:5

    • P
      June 1, 2011 at 5:15 am

      “#### Removed for profanity OR hate speech #####”

  3. NC
    June 1, 2011 at 12:24 am

    Really??? Oh Bentley…..truth hurts and no…..people who actually know you, know you are just as much of a jerk in real life as you are in this show…so in this case, it is his reality….he’s a real life jerk and you are that mean!

  4. FL
    June 1, 2011 at 5:11 am

    BW2 :
    Honesty is good. It lets people know where you stand.

    This is true, however he says how he doesn’t her but is still going to stick his tongue down her throat. Get some standards!!

  5. Lynnsey
    June 2, 2011 at 9:43 pm

    I can’t believe thiis website.Who would like and support this guy

    • June 2, 2011 at 11:03 pm

      If you only knew the truth. I have seen his hair up close and it’s amazing.

      • annette
        June 14, 2011 at 11:04 pm

        You are an IDIOT!

  6. aj
    June 5, 2011 at 4:00 am

    wow. it is going to be brutal! but how bored would we all be without a guy like this on the show?

  7. cher
    June 6, 2011 at 10:05 am

    Bentley looks like Frankenstein!

    • Narcissa
      June 29, 2011 at 5:17 am

      So why don’t you post your picture so we can compare?

  8. t
    June 7, 2011 at 3:47 am

    Bentley is a jerk. I feel so sad for his daughter. Ashley deserves so much better.

  9. smj
    June 7, 2011 at 3:50 am

    This show is trash. Why am I watching it?!?

  10. Jess Gamboa
    June 7, 2011 at 4:29 am

    Bentley is ugly. Period.

  11. Lisa
    June 7, 2011 at 3:13 pm

    Bentley, you need to date my daughter and she will put you in your place. Yes, she has nice hair too, and yes she is quite proud of her intelligence and looks. Although, she may not be interested in you, because really you are not all that you think you are. 😀

  12. Anonymous
    June 7, 2011 at 5:15 pm

    Does anyone else think that Bentley looks like the caveman on the Geico commercial?

    • June 7, 2011 at 6:02 pm

      Lame, you did not even look at the blog did you?

  13. Kim
    June 7, 2011 at 7:25 pm

    U people are sick!! Ok I agree honesty is welcome, especially on a “reality” tv show. Also I am sure that some of the stuff that Bentley said was probably edited as well as scripted. But come onnnn would you really want a guy like that? Two faced? That talks sh*t about you behind your back and in your face he acts like he is into you?? Most of the things he says, the parts which are not edited, cannot “come across” any other way. Please, this guy is exactly what is wrong with the world today!! Guys like THAT are what’s wrong with the world today but most of all women like you idolize men like that. Fine if he wanted to do all this to gain fame, mission accomplished he gained his fame, he wanted to leave fine he left, those are not the reasons I think he is scum. Honesty or not, that is NOT the way you talk about women, he is disgusting and disrespectful, having a daughter of his own he should know better than that. And to all of you sicko’s who idolize him, you will be thinking differently when you are the one being disrespected.

  14. Anonymous
    June 8, 2011 at 10:38 pm

    Brutal honesty? Brutal honesty would be telling Ashley exactly what he tells the camera. He’s a snake. But snakes make good T.V.

    • June 8, 2011 at 10:47 pm

      That would be brutal. Your right. William is more like that, not Bentley.

      • Anonymous
        June 16, 2011 at 5:25 pm

        At least William showed remorse for acting like a jerk. Bentley however appears to relish in the joy of being a jerk.

        • June 17, 2011 at 7:39 pm

          William showed sheepish lameness, not remorse. There is a difference…

  15. Anonymous
    June 11, 2011 at 3:07 am

    I don’t necessarily think Bentley is wrong for what he did. It just would have left more of an impact and OMGsh factor if he would have said all of those things to her face on the show…to me he copped out the douche bag way! Just sayin…

    • June 12, 2011 at 12:58 am

      Oh my gosh. Your that Tool of a chick that keeps hounding us on facebook. You always post“Just sayin…” after every freaking post. Puh-a-lease get over your mimicking, “Just sayin…” was so 12 posts ago (and every comment since).

      Furthermore, you are completely lost on how dumping works. PEOPLE LIE WHEN THEY DUMP PEOPLE! That’s the only part of reality the Bentley Apologists think the show got right about reality. Boys have dumped you because you are fat, ugly, annoying or some combination there of. They have also lied to you about why they are dumping you to avoid the truth. EVERY DUDE DOES THIS!

  16. Anonymous
    June 11, 2011 at 7:42 pm

    This is the stupidest website that I have ever seen. Why would anyone devote a website to someone who has as little importance as Bentley Williams. Who gives a rat’s butt if he was “cast as a villian?” He was a short-lived contestant on a reality show that has already hosted close to 600 hundred other people. I don’t agree with people posting violent things about him, but on the other hand, why would one put him on a pedestal? I came to this website after seeing it listed somewhere and assumed it was a joke. It’s a real website, but it’s a real joke too. I wonder where all of this Bentley adoration will get you? I am guessing somewhere between the Dalai Lama and Osama Bin Laden. Nowhere.

  17. HaveSomeCourage
    June 11, 2011 at 10:14 pm

    As much as this blog entertains me, there seems to be something absent from its posts. People can conjecture all they want about Chris Harrison, the other bachelors, and even Bentley. But the legitimacy surrounding some of the distain for Bentley isn’t because he is a “villain” but because he is not as ‘real’, ‘honoring’, ‘authentic’, ‘truthful’, or ‘honest’ as some of your blog posts or other Bentley camp-ites claim. While women go for dodgy sorts all the time, what most people find offensive in the end are people who lack integrity, truth, and veracity. I was actually looking forward to Bentley telling Ashley (as he did in many of the on-camera interviews) the truth about his departure from the show. I was even looking forward to him telling the men the real truth about stealing Ashley’s heart with ill intentions. That would have been TRUE reality t.v.!!! I bet ABC’s ratings would have gone through the roof to see the 14 other men beating the tar out of Bentley and messing up his hair! To watch him lie to those around him made his case for real infamy illegitimate…and made me want to barf. Any regard for Bentley that could have been of any value for ‘telling it like it is’ was lost by him only ‘telling it like it was’ to the cameras. Yes, he is interesting. Unfortunately it doesn’t make up for his cowardice.

    • June 11, 2011 at 11:37 pm

      “TRUE reality t.v.!!!” Do you know the meaning of the word reality? Because in reality people lie when they know they are going to rip someone’s heart out. They lie when they are breaking up. This is reality.

      Hate to brake it to you sister but that last dude that dumped you and said, “It’s not you it’s me.” What he meant was, “It’s totally you and I have been waiting for weeks to tell you that you’re personality does not make up for your looks.” Or when he said, “Can we still be friends.” What he meant was, “I don’t want to hang out any more with you, don’t be a stalker and hate me.”

      • annette
        June 14, 2011 at 11:07 pm

        Wait a minute you are bentley!

  18. HaveSomeCourage
    June 12, 2011 at 6:00 am

    Bentley fan;

    Not EVERYONE lies when they are about to rip someone’s heart out. Just obtuse, prepubescent, simple-minded people like you. Truthfully, it doesn’t sound like you are old enough or mature enough to understand that true honesty means saying the hard things…things like, “It is you, not me” or “I’ve been waiting for weeks to tell you your personality doesn’t make up for your looks”. Of course, any dim-wit with half a brain would use more tact and class, but like Bentley it appears that you also are not capable of being a real man and just telling the truth. Women actually like men more when they are honest…keeps the second guessing to a minimum. There is true strength in a man with integrity and character…it is actually quite alluring.

    And, you are completely daft and don’t know the first thing about what real women want which is why you spend so much time on this blog living vicariously through Bentley. If you really want to blog about something insightful, it might better be a use of your time to figure out what women really are drawn to (and I’m not talking about weak, silly women who would give any stock to the likes of Bentley). Perhaps you might give that a whirl because like Bentley, this blog will soon be a transitory tale of silly talking boys with not much else to offer.

    Oh, how I love sparring with feeble minded blokes.

    • June 12, 2011 at 11:53 am

      Wrong. I know you feel proud about this last comment, but it contains no truth about short term relationships. People don’t dump people (especially after two dates) without lying. Did you read the post? The entire Seinfeld show is based on this. What made Seinfeld funny is his take on this reality in short term dating.

      Feel free to continue to live in your fantasy world about how the dating world works. We still contend that no man you date 2-3 times will ever tell you why he is dumping you. He will not tell you that he does not want to be with you because of your annoying laugh, your cankles, your man hands, or the fact that you go online talk about reality TV. Men don’t tell the truth when they are dumping someone in a short term relationship–which is what this was.

  19. HaveSomeCourage
    June 12, 2011 at 7:10 pm

    Bentley Fan;

    Proud isn’t exactly the word I’d use…your reply just cracked me up so I said it. I know many men (and women) who after just a few dates were completely honest to the person as to why they felt the relationship would not work. I myself have had to tell men that they simply were “too boring” (said delicately by the words “I don’t think we’re compatible) or that I’m “just not attracted to you” (aka “sorry, there just isn’t any chemistry”). In the end I think that people appreciate the simplicity of the truth, even when guised in a little compassion. Now if someone has cankles, man hands, or whatever and the 2-3 dates that you went on were just ‘soft dates’ then being brutally honest to the point that it hurts or belittles someone just isn’t worth it. You can be honest without being cruel.

    There was nothing ‘soft’ though about the way Bentley conducted himself on the show. I am sure that when Ashley watched the show, it was very hurtful to hear the things that Bentley said to the camera, but didn’t have the guts to say to her face. I do realize that Bentley is young, and to be divorced at his age suggests that his character exhibited on camera proceeded him. He apparentely just acted the way he knows how.

    There is a myth that if something is working then it must be true. But in reality, if something is true, it must be working. This cruel boyish game that Bentley played may be working for him (and probably for you) right now, but in the long run things have a way of coming back around (hate it when that happens!).

    Looks fade, money is fleeting and the true testimony of a man (and woman!) when he leaves this planet is what he did, what he said, how he contributed to society, and what kind of legacy he leaves behind. Certainly Bentley would not appreciate a man treating his daughter the way he treated Ashley–I’m sure that would be very sad for him should the shoe be on the other foot one day.

    Lastly, what I want to know is if Bentley is Seinfeld, does that make you George Castanza?!?!?!?!

    Happy dating!

    • June 12, 2011 at 9:25 pm

      Enjoy your comments, but I think your still wrong. People do lie most of the time. Good for you if you don’t but most do out of consideration for those they are dumping. Comments like “we are not compatible” or “there is no chemistry” could be closer to the truth, but it’s not the truth.

      I think we all have a little of both George and Seinfeld in us. My husband is all Kramer.

  20. Jewel
    June 12, 2011 at 7:18 pm

    Very cool character they have created. I’m sure all of the guys wanted the slow, rather dim-witted Emily until they have to hold her hand through yet another cosmetic surgery procedure (at 24 no less) and figure out that she can’t hold a job. Give them a few months before they get bored and move on.

  21. Anonymous
    June 16, 2011 at 5:20 pm

    I hope one day someone treats his daughter the same way he treated Ashley so he will know what a douche bag he really is.

  22. clazzy
    June 21, 2011 at 1:56 am

    CAVEMAN bentley… *** YES! I thought it the first time I saw him and put it in the browser to see if anyone else said the same thng….. lol……. I hope she picks that sweet JP… I like AMES TOO coz he is such a nice guy but the chemistry is JP and ASHLEY…

  23. Realistic
    June 21, 2011 at 4:38 pm

    Who ever Actually Wasted time in life to put up this website is honestly more PATHETIC and IGNORANT then Bentley Himself! I hope Darwinism comes into effect on you people and you are eliminated from the human race as i could only hope that you NEVER reproduce and the world is no longer plagued with IDIOTS like you! And Someone Already Said But I have to Second it! “I hope one day someone treats his daughter the same way he treated Ashley so he will know what a douche bag he really is.”

    • June 21, 2011 at 9:53 pm

      “Realistic” a few things you need to do before you next post:

      1) Read the blog. We make some good arguments for Bentley.
      2) If Bentley is pathetic why do you watch him on TV?
      3) If Bentley is pathetic why do you watch other people talk about him when he is no-longer on the show?
      4) If we are pathetic idiots, why have you come to the site to read our content along with ~5,000 other visitors each day?
      5) Why are you so concerned about our pathetic site that you post a comment?
      6) If we are pathetic, why are you reading this comment right now?

      • Realistic
        June 21, 2011 at 10:49 pm

        I hope this will Clarify for you:
        1) Regardless of what comments you make, how the show was edited, who he is in real life, if it was taken out of context, regardless of everything, Someone who is willing to go on National Television and make comments as he did is a low individual, Trash, a Dirt Bag. Call it whatever you want to call it but that is a fact.
        2) Watching Bentley on TV was really more due to ABC Airing such an appalling individual, So its really more a matter of them being pathetic, but that is just a thought.
        3) I really cant control the fact that Ashley will not stop talking about him, nor that she brought this trash back to the show for 1 episode. I watch The Bachelorette, not the Bentley Show, so check yourself on that one.
        4)I stumbled upon your site when I was trying to find out if Ashley really subjects herself to being around Bentley again. Which she does and i am honestly embarrassed for her. In fact she is quoted saying that watching these last few episodes is humiliating. As for the Bentley supporters who visit your site, I am going to default to my original Darwinism Comment and Hope for the best in the world!
        5)While I am Not particularly concerned with the site I was so disgusted upon reading some of these posts that i truly could not help myself. Upon looking back at some of the above blog just now I am even more nauseated. In Comment #35 You mention your husband. I could only assume that you are a women! That makes all of this even more wrong. Do you have no pride! No respect for other women?! I really am baffled at trying to understand this right now. I hope your Husband Lies to You as Bentley Has done. And i hope you have Daughters Who have there hearts Broken in the same way Ashley did. Let me tell you Lady KARMA IS A BITCH… and you have some serous bad news heading your way! If i could i would have your website disbanded and taken off the internet!
        6)Boredom! that is the only reason i returned to this site. While that may make me pathetic as well, At least I am not a ignorant fool who is willing to support such trash as Bentley which is more than I can say for you!

        So “bentleyfar” Perhaps you should make an attempt at regaining some level of class or possibly an education before your next post 🙂

        • June 22, 2011 at 12:02 am

          So, you’re saying you hope my husband lies to me and my daughter has her heart broken (in real life), you want to disband my website (thanks Big Brother), and that I should get some class or possibly and education before I post next….

          All this because of a post in a blog about a reality TV contestant who is no longer on the show. This reality TV stuff is serious business, and I seem to have offended some people. Maybe I should re-evaluate my outlook on life, the university, everything – and of course stop posting…

          Nah

  24. allison
    June 24, 2011 at 5:01 am

    bentleyfan :

    William showed sheepish lameness, not remorse. There is a difference…

    William is at least self-aware after he acts like a jerk. He’s lame only because he keeps making the same mistakes again.

  25. Swedish Male
    June 24, 2011 at 3:36 pm

    good for you, the real villain is Ashley for not being Emily.
    There is no excuse for not bleaching your hair, ladies

  26. Kristi
    June 25, 2011 at 5:27 pm

    I just read this statement and it was BEGGING me to rip it apart. “The guy’s got swagger, the guy’s got looks. Plus, we dig his brutal honesty.” If he had swagger he wouldn’t have to rely on lies and dishonesty to woo Ashley. You call swagger using you DAUGHTER to dump a girl? Cause I call that pathetic. And the dude wasn’t honest, he was just brutal. Thats fine if he didn’t like Ashley, but there wasnt an ounce of honesty running through his veins. He is a pathetic coward, plain and simple.

    • June 26, 2011 at 4:23 am

      Kristi, before you post to a blog, read some of the posts. Related to your comments above, check out this post on all the editing

      https://bentleywilliamsapologists.wordpress.com/2011/06/13/“original-bachelorette-footage-edited”—exclusive-commentary-from-bentley-2/

      Bentley will be expecting your apology.

    • Narcissa
      June 29, 2011 at 5:24 am

      @Kristi, “Woo Ashley?” You’re kidding right? Bentley made no bones about not wanting Ashley. If you review the episodes you’ll see that she sought him out every time. I will admit that he never told her straight up that he didn’t want her, but if she’d paid attention she wouldn’t have gotten so caught up. Besides, why go all out for a girl when you know it will never work? According to those in the know, Bentley is a devout Mormon and Ashley is supposedly an atheist–Michelle Money told Bentley as much before he left (if you look on Reality Steve’s blog, this is going to come up on her hometown date with Constantine in which he ditches her annoying, godless self too). And yeah, he was brutal but he never said the mean stuff to her face. Ashley only cussed him after he served her the ‘period’. Ashley is TDTL. She may be book smart but she’ll never keep a man because she is too needy and she shows signs of clingyness.

      • Elisa
        July 13, 2011 at 10:14 am

        Wow… spechless… and not in a good way…

  27. Elisa
    July 13, 2011 at 9:41 am

    Bentley is just a low-life, regular scumbag that enjoys hurting people. Any man or woman that feels empowered by using his or her charms to hurt someone does not deserve much. I don’t wish him anything bad but karma is unforgiving, and I hope that he gets a taste of what he likes to dish out to others. I also hope that his actions do not give him any long-lasting celebrity.

    Bentley – you are just a sad, sad little man and I feel sorry for you.

    • JenZull
      July 13, 2011 at 6:42 pm

      Elisa, you totally dig him. It’s ok to admit it.

  28. Name Withheld
    August 23, 2011 at 2:09 pm

    Bentely Williams Apologists,

    You, the authors/creators of this blog (whom I suspect to be a lone female referring to herself as “we”) claim that your aim is to simply defend the former Bachelorette contestant and prove that he is being unfairy treated/interpreted. However, in reality, this blog is simply about circulating rumours, trashing the current Bachelorette, the contestants (excluding Bentley of course) as well as the show itself, and promoting the former contestant (Bentley).

    You ridicule the contests and make horrible remarks towards them, for no reason what so ever. Except perhaps to demonstrate your mean spirited nature. Further more, you claim in your posts that Bentley’s comments were edited, however you have no proof to back up your allegations. You not only lack evidence, but also show great ignorance. The producers allow you to WATCH Bentley as he SAYS the words. They are not simply audio commentary. The audience SEES him saying the words. If there was gross editing as you allege, then it would be obvious and you would have proof.

    Having said that, you are entitled to your opinion and to your own personal webspace. You have accomplished what I suspect you sought out to do. To ridicule the show, the bachelorette, the contestants, defend (and almost worship) Bentley, spread rumours/false allegations, create further interest in your blog as well as Bentley himself, and to rebel against good and just morals and values.

  1. July 2, 2011 at 6:14 pm
  2. July 5, 2011 at 6:53 pm
  3. July 5, 2011 at 6:53 pm

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: